Tuesday, November 27, 2012

USA Thanksgiving In AUS

Jen and Daniel gave me Friday morning (Thursday afternoon back home) off so that I could Skype my family for Thanksgiving lunch/dinner. It actually worked out quite perfectly - the internet was on its best behavior (no cutting in and out and dropping the call like usual), I could see and hear everyone, and they could hear and see me. I was able to be part of all the conversations and laugh with them and honestly felt like I was there. I even got to Skype with and tell my Munkie happy Thanksgiving. As I posted on facebook, my family may have been eating turkey, stuffing, and fresh rolls while I was eating my breakfast cereal, but that honestly didn't matter to me at all. I was just glad I could celebrate this holiday with the people who I love most - my family (and my cat). After it was all said and done, rather than being sad and lonely as I had expected I would be, I was smiling, full of joy and love, and in a wonderful mood. From half way around the world I just celebrated Thanksgiving with my family... how could I be anything but thrilled?
After Skyping with my family I then Skyped with my 2nd family. It was a really good to see all of them and everyone be awake and talkative because usually when I Skype them it is fairly late and everyone is pretty much ready for bed (can't blame 'em though). So, not only did I get to spend Thanksgiving with my family, but I also got to spend it with my 2nd family (who I miss terribly) and I'm not sure that would have happened if I was actually there!! 

I went downstairs and did a bit of tidying around the house for Jen and then she came home and asked how I was doing (also expecting me to be a little down). I told her I was actually alright and then she said, well since I knew this is a day you might be a little sad I got you this - and she pulled out a paper bag from Aviv - the local bakery who makes the all time best semi-sweet Challah with crumbs on top and sultanas inside - and then said, "It's not a roast turkey but..." I said, "Is that?!" and she nodded yes. I then asked if it was for tonight (Shabbat). And she said no, that this one was all for me and I didn't have to wait until tonight to eat it. I immediately started in on it. I'm a girl who just can't resist a loaf of Challah and I'm not ashamed to admit that. 


The rest of my day was fairly uneventful... I watched TV, did a little of this and a little of that, Jen picked up Ben and brought him home, and then I went and picked up Michelle and took her to group violin. I skipped Shabbat and went down the road a bit for a babysitting job which was a piece of cake and I now have a new family to babysit for whenever they need someone. In addition to all this awesomeness, I didn't have to see 8 million flyers, store windows, and commercials advertising Black Friday/Thursday. 

So yeah, I seriously couldn't have imagined a Thanksgiving away from home going any better. =]

New Words/Phrases and Differences

Words/Phrases
Right O = Yeah or Okay
No Drama(s) = Don't worry about it, It's all good, No worries, You're fine
Won't Be A Tick = It will happen quickly ("It'll be just one second")
Chemist = Pharmacy/Pharmacist
Woop Woop = Middle of nowhere
Hotel = Pub
Icy Pole = Popsicle
Whinge = Complain

New Foods
Pumpkin
Calamari
Cherries
Cereal with dried apricot
More lamb
Another spring roll
Indian

Differences
Tanning salons aren't on every corner and in fact they are getting rid of them
Free wi-fi is not available at most holiday accommodations


I'm going to try and keep a better record of these things for next time...

Breaking Dawn Part 2

Because movies in Australia come out on Thursdays (instead of Fridays like in the US) and Australia is 16 hours ahead of the US, I got to see Breaking Dawn on Wednesday night / Thursday morning at midnight. At that time it was 8am Wednesday morning and my friends back home wouldn't be watching it until Thursday night / Friday morning at midnight. I'll admit once I found out I'd be in Australia for this release and then I discovered just how much sooner I'd be seeing it than everyone back home... I was pretty excited.

I organized an au pair outing for the midnight release of Breaking Dawn. The kids went to bed at 7:30 and the girls arrived between 8 and 8:15. 4 of my friends (2 I knew previously, 2 new) joined us for the first portion of the night which consisted of way to many yummy munchies and watching Part 1 of Breaking Dawn in my living room.

Jen and Daniel were so excited to finally meet some of my au pair friends and it turns out Daniel could speak with 2 of them in their first language (Dutch and French) and Jen is from the same country (South Africa) as one of the other girls, so conversation was pretty easy between all of them. Michelle was so cute when my friends arrived. I just so happened to look up and see her little face peering over the stair banister. I ended up letting her come down for a quick hello because she was so desperate to meet "The Big Girls". No matter how many times we told her to get in bed she would come back out ever so quietly and look over the banister or sit on the stairs and peek through the ballisters. Only once the doors between the front hallway/stairs and living room were shut did she finally go to bed. Jen and Daniel were amazing host parents... Just like any other mom and dad would do, they spend the evening/night in the front portion of the house (in the study and their room) so that I could have the living room with my friends. I was so very grateful for this. Later in conversation about the night they said they figured it was just practice for when the kids get older. This is one of the many ways I feel like Jen and Daniel think of me as an older daughter more than an employee.

Once Part 1 finished we worked out driving arrangements and Penelope (one of the new ones, from South Africa) said she could do it. I was extremely grateful for this too, because I despise driving so this took a lot of stress off my mind. I am very good at giving driving directions though, so I sat up front and became the GPS. We drove the 30 seconds to the train station to drop of the other new girl (Leonie... I think) and pick up Alice (another au pair I have met before). We then headed off to the theater. The theater was practically deserted. There was nobody else around but us really. There were a few other cars and some people inside eating, but it certainly wasn't what I was expecting. I've been to 4 other midnight premiers for Twilight and there was always a mad dash to be first in line and then you waited a couple hours until the doors opened. There were always tons and tons of people... Here there was maybe about 20 of us waiting outside the theater doors and maybe about 20 or so more already inside watching Part 1. I missed the hype and excitement that having all those people around and waiting in line creates, but I did enjoy not having to worry about getting a good seat or with all the twihards and their ridiculousness. Speaking of twihards... the age of the crowd was much different as well. The majority seemed to be 20s and early 30s.

After the movie finished the 5 of us girls were escorted out by a security guard. We drove Sidsel (one I knew previously) home, then Penelope dropped me, Alice, and Claire (one I knew prviously) off at my house, and Penelope drove home. Because Alice and Claire live quite a ways away and they have no car and public transportation doesn't run at 2:30 in the morning, we had planned for them to stay with me in my room for the night. We finally headed off to sleep around 3am at which point I was laying in bed wishing I could throw up every lollie (skittles, sour gummy worms, and hershey kisses) I had just eaten over the past 5 hours. Apparently after eating healthy for 4 months, my body doesn't handle massive amounts of candy as well as it used to. After 3 short hours I had to wake up to walk Alice to the door so she could get home for work. I then went back to sleep only to wake up at 7 to start work. At around 7:30 Claire came down and said good-bye and left as well.

Unfortunately it was a Thursday which meant a FULL 12.5 hour day with the kids. Fortunately, I have an amazing host mom who took a bit of the load off by picking up Michelle that afternoon and an amazing Benjamin who managed to entertain himself all morning. I was exhausted but it was so worth it because I got to see it before anyone else I knew back home, I made new friends, and I was reminded of just how amazing my host parents really are. I made sure to thank them for helping make my friends feel so welcome and for giving me the back half of the house to myself. And again, they told me they are just practicing for later.

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Melbourne Cup Day

Melbourne Cup Day is a public holiday for metropolitan Melbourne and some parts of regional Victoria. The  Melbourne Cup is the major horse race in Australia. The race covers a distance of 3,200 metres and takes place every year in Melbourne at 3pm on the first Tuesday in November. The first race was held in 1861. It is one of the most popular spectator events in Australia with sometimes over 110,00 people (record was 122,736 in 2003). The attire is just as much an attraction as the horse race. Substantial prizes are awarded for the best-dressed man and woman - expensive dresses, elegant hats/fascinators, full suits, etc.

Around 300 - 400 horses are nominated each year and the initial entry fee is $600. However, only 24 horses can compete. The owner of each horse must declare the horse as an acceptor and pay a fee - 1st $960, 2nd $1,450, 3rd $2,420, and 4th $45,375. 

The prize money is in the millions. In 2010 the prize money hit 6 million. This year the prize money was 6.2 million. 85% of the prize money is given to the owner of the horse. 10% of the money is given to the horse's trainer. The remaining 5% of the money goes to the jockey. The owner of the winning horse also receives a trophy, while the trainer and jockey receive a miniature replica.

My Melbourne Cup Day
Since it is a public holiday Daniel had off work, which meant I had off work. I spent Monday night at Nikki and Louise's for a break. I spent most of Tuesday hanging out in my pjs. Around 2 or so I went with the Rowntree's to their family friends' house for the race. It's actually quite a cool tradition they have. The two families get together, have good food (fresh fruit, cupcakes, and chips), draw horse names, cheer for their chosen horse(s) for the 3 minute race, and then get prizes. The people who drew the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, and last place horses get to choose which bag/box of chocolate they want... and then they share it with everyone. All 3 I drew came in somewhere in the middle. Afterwards I went back home with Nikki and Louise, hung out a bit, and then we picked up pizza for dinner. 

The winner of the Melbourne Cup this year was Green Moon. Green Moon is owned by an Australian businessman who has now won 4 Melbourne Cups (1981, 1985, 2007, 2012). Green Moon is a 6 year old stallion born in Ireland. He began his career in England until he was bought by his current Australian owner. And he was sired by Monteju, which is apparently a pretty big deal in the horse world. If I do end up taking the job extension, I will be in Australia for next year's Melbourne Cup and I plan on attending the actual race just to say I've done that. Tickets are quite expensive for a 3 minute horse race, which is the main reason I chose not to go this year.

A public holiday for a horse race seems a little silly to me but if it means I get off work, get to spend time with good company, and get to enjoy yummy food and candy... then I say, bring on the horse races!!! ; )

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Melbourne (Art) Festival

Melbourne Festival is an international multi-art festival held every year in, you guessed it, Melbourne. It includes dance, theater, music, visual arts, multimedia, and outdoor events.

When I originally looked at the catalogue/program of all the different offerings, I had so many chosen from each category that I was set to go broke attending art performances. I spent the last 2 weeks before the festival began in Port Douglas so I had completely forgotten about the festival and hadn't purchased any tickets. I got back from PD and realized a few days later that the festival had already began and I had already planned some things over certain days of the festival. Unfortunately, for me this cut down my options quite a bit, but fortunately for my wallet, I wasn't going to be able to see everything.

It came down to 3 - 1. An Act of Now (Dance), 2. Hold (Performance Art Engagement), 3. Before Your Very Eyes (Theater).

An Act of Now
This is a dance piece performed by Chunky Move (founded in 1995) of Melbourne, Australia at the Sydney Myer Music Bowl. This piece won The 2012 The Age (major Australian Newspaper) Award for best major new Australian work at the Melbourne Festival.

Each viewer was given headphones. It was completely dark outside except for the 4 bright lights at the bottom of the huge hill the viewers walked along the top of. Coming through the headphones was quiet, slightly frantic, whispering. "I can't tell you how long this is going to take." "Let's not talk about this now." "Be careful." At the very bottom of the hill a person dressed in firefighting gear with orange traffic control sticks started walking slowly up the hill saying things about fire safety - "Don't leave the stove on", "Call in an emergency". Intermittently as she walked forward there was a slight boom and a glass house on the stage, filled with smoke, would light up. Every other time there was a silhouette of a guy in a waist coat and top hat. She stopped at the top of the hill near the long line of viewers and used the orange sticks to direct us forward. The mass of viewers walked slowly down the hill until the woman made an "X" with the sticks. She then pointed to left side of the mass and then pointed down the hill to the left side as a walk way lit up. She pointed to the right side of the mass and pointed down the hill to the right side as a walk way lit up. The viewers walked down the walkways past all the seats, up a set of stairs on either side, and met on the stage on bleacher like seats. [I got a seat right in the middle =] By this point the glass house was constantly lit with a mute orange/brown light. It was filled with smoke and intermittently silhouettes appeared in the corners and sides. Then they would sink back into the smoke as other silhouettes came forward.

There were 8 dancers in this piece - 4 boys, 4 girls. Partnered up, they danced slowly with each other, hinting at relationship. The dancing became increasingly chaotic as they moved faster with each other and more violent. They smacked the glass walls, fell to the floor, ran around, threw each other, etc. About 1/4 of the way through the piece, all of the smoke had cleared. The movements remained fast, forceful, and sharp. While watching, I felt as if I was the only one seeing this performance, as though it was just for me or as though I was eavesdropping on an important interaction. This feeling, I believe, came from the headphones. When I took the headphones off and looked around everyone was in the same "trance" I was. Dead still, eyes wide, not blinking, forgetting to breathe, and probably thinking they were the only ones seeing the performance, and forgetting about everyone else around them. Without the headphones, there was silence except for an intermittent boom from speakers and the sound of the dancers' breaths and bodies as they hit the walls and floor. About 1/2 way through I smelled something strange and then I realized I was smelling the dancers' sweat. Most people may think that is gross, but for me... it just made the interaction between the piece and myself that much more personal.

About 3/4 of the way through one of the female dancers was smacking the most dominant male dancer. His body responded with jolts and flinches and screams. After quite a few smacks his body movements toned down a bit and his scream was a bit quieter and instead one of the girls on the floor flinched a bit and let out a small sound. With each following slap the guy's response got quieter as the girl's got bigger and louder. After a few more smacks the girl stopped smacking him and the two of them stared, along with everyone else who was huddled on the floor, at the blonde girl screaming uncontrollably like something had taken over her. Her screaming, writhing, and fist pounding on the floor and walls suddenly stopped and all was silent - uncomfortably so. After about 30 seconds one of the guys on the floor began trying to hold back a smirk and snicker - then another person, then another person. Before long everyone (including the screaming blonde) was sitting on the floor around the perimeter of the inside of the house with their backs along the wall hysterically laughing - loud. This also went on for an uncomfortable amount of time. I could hear an audience member here or there every now and then snicker a bit and I found myself snickering a bit too. Nothing was funny really... but it was as though we almost felt compelled to laugh because they were or to break the awkwardness. The laughs grew quiet, but their mouths remained open, stuck. As they danced their mouths relaxed a bit, one by one.

Shortly after this the viewers were let in on another aspect of the glass house. The metal bars lying horizontal about half way up the walls were actually ledges. The dancers began using these ledges to find new positions, watch the happenings from a different angle, and climb around. Shortly after this discovery was the discovery of the bars in a grid-like pattern along the inside of the top of the glass house. The dancers used these to change location, show different aspects of relationship, give the viewers new levels to think about, make different shapes with their body, etc. Then, seemingly out of nowhere they started trying to decide who should leave the house - they all ganged up on this one guy. He stormed out of the glass house, screaming. He headed past the chairs in the audience kicking things. He reached the grass (the bottom of the big hill mentioned earlier) and he picked up a traffic cone and threw it, screaming. He also kicked some other signs up there. The rest of the dancers just stood there watching. He came back down to the glass house, opened the door, and said he was sorry. The dancers all said it was okay and gave him hugs.

Two of the dancers partnered up and became the main focus while another dancer moved around on the bars over head. When the partners seemed to be coming to a close on their bit, I looked around to see what the other dancers were doing and I realized... I was sure there were more dancers... There were 2 dancers missing. I would have seen them leave through the same door the guy did, because it was pretty obvious. I just couldn't figure it out until I saw a tile lift off the floor, turn, and tilt at an angle. Next thing I know one of the "missing" dancers came up from the floor. Then another tile lifted on the opposite side of the floor and the other dancer came up from there. Below the floor now became another level to ponder. There were now 4 levels of the house - the ceiling, the walls, the floor, and underneath the floor - that the dancers could utilize. It opened up so many more movement opportunities including new partnering and new lines. About 5 minutes from the end one of the guys came up through the floor to about his waist. He had a sparkly silver jacket over his dance clothes and had a violin propped under his chin on his shoulder. He played a smooth, slow piece while the remaining 2 dancers slowly changed positions while never letting go of each other. The guy hung upside down by the bend in his knees wrapped around a bar on the ceiling. She alternated between having her feet on the floor and feet off the floor hanging from him. At the end they slipped slowly down through one of the holes in the floor and the violinist followed behind them.

Next thing you know all of the dancers are running up the aisles, towards the hill (they came from under the stage, but viewers couldn't see that). It appeared as though they had all thrown black clothes or at least a black jacket over their neutral, muted colored clothing. They were running, screaming, laughing, playing, and just enjoying this sense of freedom. They disappeared over the hill and then a second later came running back over and down the hill to the front of the glass house. The audience cheered, stomped their feet, whistled, and clapped as the cast bowed, ran backstage, and ran back out 2 or 3 times (I still haven't figured out why). And just like that... This brilliant, beautiful, emotion filled dance piece was over.

The piece was so captivating with it's movement and surprising change in available levels. The relationships formed and emotions experienced drew me in and held me there, on the edge of my seat, forgetting to breathe, waiting for the next development. When it was over all I wanted was more or to see it all over again.

Standing at the top of the hill looking down



If you look carefully toward the center of the photo you can see the dancers on the hill

Hold
This was an immersive, multi-sensory, interactive experience created by David Cross of New Zealand at the Arts House Meat Market in Melbourne.

You walk in and the space is large and open with black curtains lining the walls. There is a small sign-in table and 3 benches in a U-shape for waiting. At the table you sign a waiver saying that you are physically able and understand the psychological aspect of the piece. You are told to remove any jewelry or glasses and empty your pockets before entering. You sit on one of the benches quietly listening to the conversations of the 3-4 people nearby talking about what it will be like. You hear words/phrases like "dark", "interesting", "different", "you can't wear tights or socks". Your eavesdropping is interrupted by someone calling your name and telling you they're ready for you - it's your turn. You walk over to these large, heavy, black doors with 2 buckets sitting next to them. You take off your shoes, socks, jacket, and glasses and place it all in the bucket along with your purse, phone, camera, papers, and anything else you may have with you. You hear over the radio of the attendant that they are ready for you to go in. You walk up to the doors, look up, and realize these doors must be about 18 feet tall. You pull, finding that they are surprisingly lighter than expected.

You walk into a large hardwood floored room with light colored walls and a large, blue, house shaped, inflatable in the center of the room. As you walk closer you see two ramps in the center of it separated by a thin wall. As previously directed by the attendant, you walk/climb up the ramp on the left. You reach the top only to find a little inflatable ledge (about the width of one of your feet) with a huge drop off to your left and... a hand sticking out of the wall to the your right... The hand's palm is up, fingers slightly spread apart, as though welcoming you to grab hold of it - to do so though, you would have to step on to the ledge, which is in fact, the only way across... You step onto the ledge, grab the hand, and slowly put one foot in front of the other. You can feel the hand's strength and struggle as it tries to pull you closer to the wall and keep you from falling off the ledge. Halfway across - Left, right, left, right, lef... you start to slip but you and the hand pause as one as the hand fights to keep you up. Somehow the hand finds it's strength, keeps you up, and you start walking again. You get close to the end, you take one of the last steps forward, but the hand doesn't move forward with you - it won't budge. You could hold on to the hand and turn around and go out, but then you won't know what lies ahead around the corner. You decide to let go of the hand and take the final few steps very quickly while holding on to whatever inflatable pieces of the wall you can grab. You make it to the other side and look back to find that the hand has disappeared... Strangely you want to thank the hand...

You turn right, around a corner, and just about run into a black, fabric wall. You feel around the edges trying to figure out how to get through. You realized there is a seam in the middle. You pull at the seam to discover the wall is being held together by extremely strong Velcro. You rip open the wall, step through, and the wall automatically reseals itself behind you. Before you know it you have been blinded. You can see absolutely nothing. For a second your breath stops and your mind starts spinning - what lies ahead? is it flat, inclined, or declined? is stuff going to pop out at me? will it suddenly drop off? is there another ledge? how long will this last? will the walls disappear? are there walls? is it just a straight shot out? should I run and get it over with or walk slowly in case there's a drop off or sudden turn? should I close my eyes and just tell myself it's actually light? You grab a hold of your brain and tell it to shut up and remind yourself that several other people have done this and clearly it's safe. You decide to start by holding on to the walls and slowly sweeping your feet side to side in front of you - nothing there but more inflatable walk way. Next you decide to feel the walls - slowly, slowly, AHHH!!! You touched something!! Wait... did that something touch you back? You go back to the wall, touching slowly, there it is again! Could it be?... It's another hand...

You hold on to this hand, but not quite as tightly as the previous hand. You walk slowly, sweeping your feet in front of you with each step. You question the purpose of the hand... Is it simply to help you with the fear of the dark and unknown? Is it going to assist you in direction? Is it going to hold on to you if there is a drop off? Still walking through the pitch dark you wonder how much longer this is going to last. So far there have been no turns, no change in elevation, and the walls have not changed either. You see a faint faint light up ahead, above head height, which means there is a wall or something there, something more definite. You decide to keep your eyes on the light and just walk forward, still sweeping your feet with each step, still holding on to the hand, still trying to keep all the thoughts and questions in your mind at bay. Still no change in direction, elevation, or anything else - you arrive at the light at another fabric wall with that same seam down the middle. You rip open the Velcro to find lots of light and another ramp, leading down, like the first one you climbed up. You are on the other side. You step through and start walking/climbing down the ramp. When you look back the wall has sealed itself shut - sealing in all the what used to be unknown. And again... you missed your opportunity to thank the hand, but then again... how would you do that?

You climb down, step off, glad to be on solid ground again, you walk away towards those big black doors. You take a look back and quickly process what all just took place in such a short amount of time. You walk through the doors, put on your socks, shoes, and jacket, grab your belongings, thank the attendants, and leave as though nothing ever happened... but it did and you need to think about it...



Before Your Very Eyes
Put on by Gob Squad, founded in 1994, this piece explores theatre meeting performance, art, and media. Gob Squad is a group of UK and German artists based in Berlin and Nottingham. They have received international acclaim for their works.

The stage is set with a clear wall set back on the stage with mirrored walls on the other 3 sides. Inside the small space these walls create is 7 young teenagers watching tv, reading magazines, playing cards, and doing each other's hair. On the stage, to the left and right of the glass wall, were 2 screens. Above the glass wall was a marquee. The actors spoke German, so the marquee was used for English subtitles. The two screens on either side showed prerecorded footage and/or the live feed from the video camera in the back corner of the room.

Using the screens we were introduced to a younger version (6-10 years old) of each of the characters (played by themselves). There was an unseen actor that was an overhead voice of a woman, who spoke English. The voice talked to the children and the children talked back. She informed them that they would be living life in fast forward. The kids turn older teens, mid-life (40s), and elderly (80s). As young teens we see their carefree lifestyle and innocence - bright colors, dancing, and laughing. As older teens we see their rebellion, confusion, bad decisions - smoking, having sex, all black. At mid-life we see grown up decision, following social constructs, and uncomfortability with life - weight gain, divorce, lonliness. At the elderly age we see them questioning what all of this (life) was for, wondering why any of it matters, and what they are leaving behind.

To transition to each age a relevant song was played and they put on different clothes one or two people at a time standing in front of the glass wall as though it were a mirrored wall like the rest of them. They also used make-up, wigs, and accessories to signify their age. At times you would almost forget that there were just young teens under all that mess and then something would slip through reminding you of their youth and innocence. At different times during the piece they would talk with their younger selves (on prerecorded footage on the tv or the screen) or their future selves (an actor would dress up like the future character and stand on the outside of the glass wall as they touched hands).

During the mid-life portion the overhead voice told each actor what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. This reminded me of all the social rules we are taught to follow whether we want to or not like pretending to like someone else's baking, talking to people we would rather not talk to, and pretending like you haven't noticed someone's weight gain. As the old versions of the young people die it really makes you question life in general as well as its purpose. Not being able to understand the words coming out of their mouths and having to read the subtitles was an interesting aspect of the play. It really removed you from it and made you very much an observer of these children living life in fast forward until before they and you knew it, it was over.



Screen to the left - prerecorded footage. Marquee above - subtitles. Screen to the right - live feed from the video camera in the back right corner of the room

An Act of Now was the most dynamic and beautiful of the three. Hold required the most of me out of the three. And Before Your Very Eyes made me ask the most questions out of the three. Each was amazing in its own way and worth every penny. I would watch/do them all all over again.

Side Note: I took public transportation to and from all of these events. I managed to make it to each one with plenty of time even though on the way to one of these performances I took the tram too far and had to get off and get on a tram going the other direction to get off at the right stop, but I still made it in time. It was the trips home that were interesting. First One: It was dark when I got out so I was all turned around and didn't know which way was which, so I just followed people. They dispersed and then I just looked for a main road and trams and walked in that general direction. I was going to have to get on one tram, go two stops forward, and switch trams, but turns out I was walking towards the stop I was going to have to switch at. It was a bit of a wait, but once I got on, I got to go straight home. Second One: I walked to what I was sure was the right tram stop, but the signage was not very good, so I thought that wasn't right and then walked back to where I came from to a different tram stop. I got on and sure enough we went right by the stop I had originally walked to. Third One: The play started late and so let out late. I had to run the 500m from the theater to the tram stop to make it on time or I was going to have to wait an additional 10-15 minutes and it was already late. I ran, out of breath, throat hurting, and dizzy, but I made it in time and it was a straight shot home.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Ben Fell In Love

It was a gorgeous day today and Ben was in a gorgeous mood. The following is the exchange between the two of us this afternoon.

Ben: (hands me 7 leaves he picked off a bush) This is a special present for you, because I love you.
Me: Aw, thanks Ben. I love you too. This present is very nice.
Ben: (seeing the heart I drew in chalk on the ground, picks up a piece of chalk and draws a heart with mine) I drew a love heart because I fell in love with you.
Me: (heart melted, smile bigger than ever) Aw, Ben Ben. I love you too. Can I have a hug?
Ben: (gives me a hug) You know how some people fall in love? Well, I fell in love with you. 
Me: I think I've fallen in love with you too Ben Ben.
Ben: (goes inside and grabs his plate off the table with his leftover sandwich from lunch, walks outside with it) Let's have a picnic. (sits down next to me) We're having a picnic.
.......
After our picnic was over
Me: What do you say we go inside now and find something to do.
Ben: In the playroom? 
Me: Yes.
Ben: With you?
Me: Of course.
Ben: Okay then! Come on Nikki!




PS: This exchange took place after watching Wall-E, which may help you understand the seemingly sudden onset of him talking about being in love. It doesn't change how undeniably, ridiculously sweet he is though. 

Thursday, November 1, 2012

The Stampede - Mud Run

Friday night I was out at a church event until about midnight. I was then up until about 1:30 planning public transportation with Steffen (a fellow au pair) and laying out clothes and things to pack for the morning of the run. I made a list of additional things to pack and do in the morning. I got in bed, set my alarm for 5:00am, and passed out instantly. You know how when before the first day of school, or a new job, or a performance you always dream about it? Usually that you got lost, were late, or forgot your pants? Well...

I had a dream that I woke up late for the run. Once I finally made it to the run I realized I had forgotten an essential piece of dream mud run gear - goggles (because apparently it is easier to wipe goggles off than get mud out of your eyes). Once I finally got my hands on some goggles, the run had finished and I couldn't do it. When the dream ended I was in that middle state of awake and sleep and thinking to myself... "Gosh, I hate these dreams always happen. That would seriously suck!! Eh, might as well roll over and see what time it is... 5:03, perfect! Just on... That's not a 5! That's a 6!!! It was 6:03am and I had to be at the bus stop by 6:29 (which was a 10 minute drive away)... Never in my life have I gotten out of bed, dressed, and packed so quickly - 8 minutes to be exact.

While getting dressed I immediately called Steffen to tell him what was going on. Dressed, I hung up and ran downstairs and rummaged through the closet for a bookbag. While doing that Daniel came out and asked what was going on and I told him. He offered to drive and initially I declined (it was 6:00 on his Saturday morning) but when he offered again I took it. I ran up the stairs, threw everything into the bag, including the additional items I had to run around and find that were on my list. I ran downstairs Jen was waiting with my bottle of water and box of muffin bars in her hands. I grabbed those and was in the car by 6:11, but didn't leave until 6:13 because I had to go back in to get my phone. We made it to the bus stop (Chadstone) in record time - 4 minutes. Once there, I realized in my hurry I had forgotten to go to the bathroom, so I'd have to wait until we got to the train station to go. I thanked Daniel for driving me and he said, "Well honestly, when I heard you come in at midnight, I thought... Well, this will be interesting." He just didn't know how interesting.

Steffen and I made the bus and train with no problem, other than the fact that we couldn't find a bathroom at the train station. I was in serious pain, but we had to make the train, so we stopped looking and caught the train. I was beyond miserable for the whole train ride and to make it even better - we were one stop from our destination station and there was a "suspicious character" there so we had to just sit and wait on the train until they could go. Finally we went and made it to our destination and after 2 hours and 45 minutes I finally got relief in the disgusting, small, dark, but ever so glorious public transportation bathroom. I hopped on the shuttle with Steffen and there were 4 other au pairs and 2 sisters on there as well. On the way to the run location our driver gave us some quite unsettling information... This run involved electric jolts, ice, fire, and much more. I was petrified... I was told this was a MUD run, not all this other stuff!! I could see the same reaction on a couple of the other people's faces in the shuttle. I thought he was joking and then I realized he was extremely serious and I was upset and terrified.

At the cloakroom I discovered I had left my inhaler on the bus and hadn't used it yet. I realized just how freezing I was out in the open without my jumper on - it was a high of 16C/61F. I was also pondering the oh so fantastic information our shuttle driver shared with us. Needless to say I was terribly unexcited about the day. The crazy costumes around, however, did help cheer me up a bit - along with Steffen's positive attitude.
Before The Run
Before the Run - Can you see the fear/uncertainty in my and the other girl's eyes/faces?
The run started at 9:00am. Everyone was grouped together at the start while the guy explained part of the race and then we counted down. The beginning was easy (downhill) and then I heard screams ahead of me before I saw it - the first mud pit. Right after that was another mud pit. Depending on where you stepped you could get just your shoes dirty or all the way up to your hip. We jogged for a bit and came to a couple more obstacles. Over Under was a few sets of a low fence you had to crawl under and a row of hay bales (taller than me) that you had to jump over. Next was Rope Tango (my volunteer station - will write about later) which was a mud pit with a net over it so you had to lift the net over you while you waded through the mud. The worst part though was the smell... Straight up manure stench. Again, depending on where you step you could get just your shoes dirty or up to your hip. Up the hill, climb a short wall, arrive at Esky. Esky was an ice bath, literally. You climb up the ladder, lower yourself into the tub of murky water filled with ice (up to your chest), walk through, and lift yourself out and down the ladder. After Esky was the school bus that had a net on one side that you climbed up, stood on top of the bus, and then down the net on the other side. After the bus was the abandoned cars. You climbed through one car, up and over the other, and then slide across the two parked bumper to bumper. Next you go downhill, only to go back up a huge hill to the top of the Slip 'N' Slides. There was a queue there, so I got a chance to catch my breath which was nice. The slide was absolutely brilliant!! The speed was just incredible and the impact with the pool of water at the end was intense!! Next was up the same huge huge hill, just on the other side of the slide. The next obstacle was a climbing rock wall with no foot/hand holds on the other/down side. By this point... my two "teammates" (Steffen and another au pair girl) had left me behind even though when Steffen asked me to do this with him I had told him I can't really run due to my exercise induced asthma. The next obstacle was tunnels that started off as hard, formed tunnels and turned into like collapsed tarp tunnels. And I met back up with Steffen and the girl. We made it through that to the Run Wild obstacle which was just huge logs and things put in the middle of the path that you had to jump over. Then Head Over Heels which was cables tied among trees over small hay bales and tires and just FYI... those cables HURT when they snap back on you. We stayed together until the bottom of the big hill when they told me they wanted to go do the 10k (we were only registered for the 5k) and asked if I was okay with that... Well I said yes of course because what else was I going to say? So off they went up the hill and there I stood at the bottom alone...
1st Mud Pit
2nd Mud Pit - This guy is up to his hip in mud
Over Under

Over Under - To give you a sense of their height
Rope Tango
Esky - 2 blue ice baths
School Bus Nets

Abandoned Cars

Slip 'N' Slides - I went on the longer one
The is the face of someone conscious of the fact that soap along with tons of other people's sweat and mud is mixed in with the water. Also, at the speed I was going the water actually hurt a bit and I was trying (as visible in the photo) to keep one eye open so I knew when to hold my breath for impact with the water at the bottom.
I had come this far so of course I was going to finish, even if I had to do so alone. It was a long, slow walk up the hill and there were some guys there directing people and cheering people on. I got to the next obstacle which was a drop into a mud pond. I walked carefully down the muddy slope into the muddy water and just went for it. The firefighters standing at the top of the drop spraying you with fire hoses was a fantastic addition to an already difficult and cold obstacle. In the mud pond were ropes with barrels attached (right at my chest) that you had to somehow hurdle over. I only fell once, but luckily I fell on the side I was trying to get to. There were times when the barrels would send you back over to the side you came from. I made it out only to come to the fire obstacle. You had to climb over this small wooden fire engine thing to 3 rows of fire you had to jump over. Next was mud buffet, which was just a huge mud pit and the last obstacle of the run was the Bug Zapper which was tons of ropes hanging and each was charged to zap you. You could run through and hope you don't trip and fall and/or get zapped or you could army crawl and bypass the zaps altogether. Then there was the finish line - it took me 1.25 hours. I was beyond pleased with myself for making it through the obstacles, the physical requirements (without my inhaler), and the distance. However, crossing the finish line alone was kind of uneventful and lonely.
Mud Pond, Barrels, and Firefighters

Fire Jump
Bug Zapper
I am a Stampede Mud Run 5K FINISHER!!! =D
I got rinsed off, grabbed my bag, and went to the campground showers - which were only for the runners that were camping, but the run showers were down for the next 5-10 minutes and I was supposed to volunteer in 30 minutes. I was the first runner to use my shower stall so it was mud free - until I finished with it anyways. And the showers were amazingly hot - however for the first few minutes I couldn't feel the temperature because I was so numb from the wet and cold. Got showered and dressed and put my cold, wet, muddy shoes and socks back on because I didn't want to ruin my daily sneakers with the mud and animal poo that was everywhere. I then headed to the volunteer station to be placed where they needed me.

Volunteering was the whole way I got dragged into this thing. Steffen and I signed up to volunteer and then found out that if you volunteer you can run for free, so we decided to. They first placed me at the finish line water station where I was supposed to use the taps to fill cups for the runners but everyone finishing the race kept using the taps to rinse off. No matter how loud I yelled (over the live music that was right next to us) and no matter how many times I told them to go to the showers no one listened to me. I don't blame them really though... I radioed the volunteer manager and told her what was going on and she told me to just keep trying. After she walked by 3 separate times and saw that I was struggling she decided it wasn't worth the fight and sent me to man the Rope Tango obstacle.
My Obstacle Station
Manning the Rope Tango was fun because I got to see all the different crazy costumes, hear people's screams as they misstepped and fell up to their hips in mud, and watch as people got stuck in the mud sludge at the end. I also got to thinking about group dynamics and psychology while I was watching - who took the lead, did anyone take the lead, did everyone try to take the lead?, did the teammates listen to whoever it was that took the lead?, what different strategies did different groups of people come up with? etc. Once the last runners came through we were instructed to get the garbage bag out of our box and pick up the trash between our obstacle and the next. After sitting there for 3 hours I really wasn't in the mood to pick up trash, so I decided I wasn't going to, but then I thought... "If I don't do this, someone else will have to and more than likely that someone else will have 8 million other things they need to do or it will be the owner of this property who so kindly let us demolish his land". I decided to pick up the trash which was mostly runner bibs, fairy wings, wigs, shoes, socks, sweat bands, capes, santa hats, etc. Every now and then I would think oh I'll just leave that one, it's too far away or it's backtracking or I would think I'll just stop now since I've done about half. Each time I had one of those thoughts I just repeated the verse Colossians 3:23, "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men." I was 2 pieces of trash from being done when a guy on a motor cart thing with a truck bed like thing drove up and told me throw my trash bags in the back and hop in. He then drove me up the massive hill and all the way back to the volunteer station. I just smiled and couldn't help but think God saw me picking up the trash and decided to acknowledge that through this man's kind gesture. 
The Smurfs!! 
Volunteering - Waiting for the next wave of runners
Once back I got the wonderful surprise that the shuttle would actually be leaving earlier than original thought (7:15) and would now run every half hour from 4:30 - 5:30. While I was done with my duties, Steffen wasn't finished yet. I spent some time taking photos and looking at the massive mountain of donated shoes. There is an organization that takes runners' muddy donated shoes, cleans them, and gives them to kids/teens. Next I went to his obstacle (The Bug Zapper) and watched everyone attempt to not get zapped, but usually ended up getting zapped anyways. It was quite entertaining actually, especially when the grown men got zapped, screamed like children, and dropped to their knees. Once he was done we grabbed our things, chatted with some of the main volunteer managers and took some pictures, and then hopped on the shuttle to begin our journey home. Steffen and I made it home 2 hours earlier than originally planned, which was super nice. He waited with me until Daniel got there to pick me up. 
The Donated Shoes
Volunteers Make the Run Loads of FUN!!!
Wouldn't have enjoyed this day nearly as much if it weren't for my fellow volunteers (and staff members)!!!
I got home put on a load of muddy, smelly laundry and immediately scrubbed my hands and feet and put on warm pajamas for the evening. Ahhh... to be warm and clean once again. =] 

The day started off a disaster and there were a few bumps in the road during the day as well, but in the end it was a fabulous day that I will always remember!! Finishing alone was uneventful and fairly lonely, but it proved to me I could do this without relying on outside support or encouragement. Instead of volunteering with another person at our stations as originally planned, most of us had to man our stations alone (because several people just chose not to show up), but it gave me the opportunity to just lay in the grass in the quiet listening to the birds and feeling the sunshine. I had to pick up tons of trash (mostly runner bibs) and muddy clothes and shoes, but I got a ride afterwards up the hill and around the track to where I needed to go. I was freezing all day except for a few times during the run when I forgot how cold I was and my feet were wet all day, but I got a hot shower. In addition to all this, there was an abundance of food and drinks and all of the volunteers and staff members were personable and friendly.

Well, that's enough about this amazing event!! Oh, and by the way... I CAN'T WAIT for my next mud run (in March hopefully)!!! =D